- Has your partner ever hit, slapped, kicked or punched you or another?
- Has your partner ever thrown anything at you or another in anger?
- Does your partner control what you do or whom you see?
- Is your partner overly jealous?
- Does your partner have a Jekyll and Hyde personality?
- Can your partner express thoughts or feelings clearly or allow you to express your
feelings freely?
- Does your partner get violent when drinking?
- Is your partner able to empathize?
- Does your partner call you names or put you down making you ashamed of whom you are?
- Does your partner fail to respect you or others when you say "no?"
- Has your partner ever forced you to have sex?
- Does your partner have a quick temper that frightens you?
- How does your partner react to your success?
- Does your partner stalk or secretly follow you?
- Does your partner try to isolate you from your friends and family?